How We Show Up for Sex Is How We Show Up in Life

How we show up for sex is how we show up in our business and in life.

Sit with these honestly.

• Are you able to surrender, trust and be in the flow?
• How often do you say yes when you mean no, or go along for appeasement?
• Are you numbed out?
• Do you deny yourself pleasure, or believe you do not deserve it?
• How present are you, really?
• Are you able to bring your full bodied self? Tears, laughter, ecstasy, anger and bliss.
• Are you able to revive?
• How much do you speak up for what you actually want, or for that matter, what you do not want?

So many parallels.

Sex is a doorway, not a performance

Sex is one of the most potent ways to know and transform your body, mind and soul. This does not mean partnered sex only. In fact, I recommend starting with a solo practice.

The way you meet pleasure is the way you meet everything.

What changes when you come back

• Your body comes alive again.
• You feel more integrated and peaceful.
• You know your pleasure, and you begin living in it every damn day.
• You reclaim your voice and heal decades of swallowing down the things you have been wanting to say.

Coming into your sexual aliveness and wholeness is the most radical and empowering journey you will ever take. It is a reclamation of everything that has been shamed or traumatized in the depths of you.

Why this work has always been dangerous

You unlock the secrets and mysteries of the universe, and you understand why women have been burned and drowned for millennia when they become sexual masters. Because that is exactly what it is: they become masters of their own lives. Priestesses. They straighten their crown, and they are unfuckablewith.

!> This is not about becoming impressive. It is about becoming unavailable for your own abandonment.

What clients actually say

In my work with clients and groups, I pinch myself daily hearing what people come back and tell me.

I get to be and feel the wholeness of who I am. I get to step into my most pleasurable life. I get to scale and run the business of my dreams from resourced pleasure. I get to receive wealth and hold it. I get to have my needs met and set boundaries. I get to, in a safe and slow way, go deeper and get more intimate with myself.

I will happily brag: I am the actual Queen and embodiment of Trauma to Tantra.

Where to begin

Start smaller than you think. Give yourself twenty unhurried minutes with no goal and no performance. Notice where you rush, where you numb, where you brace for someone else's reaction that is not even in the room.

That noticing is the practice. Everything else grows from there.